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SUMMARY Î He Comes Next Ú Transform Yourself from Passion Victim to PassionistaIn the smash hit She Comes First Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual ill cliteracy and women everywhere benefited from his viva la vulva philosophy of female pleasure Now in Passionista it's time to learn all about what turns men on—and makes them stay onEs them stay on In this point by point blow by blow guide Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality unlocks the secrets of satisfaction and offers knowledgeable answers to the uestions every woman wonders about His advice is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in. There wasn’t anything in this book I hadn’t already learned on my own through relationships and reading women’s magazines as a teenager I think this book is better for a younger demographicand his simplistic writing definitely comes across like that’s what he’s aiming for

He Comes NextEs them stay on In this point by point blow by blow guide Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality unlocks the secrets of satisfaction and offers knowledgeable answers to the uestions every woman wonders about His advice is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in. There wasn’t anything in this book I hadn’t already learned on my own through relationships and reading women’s magazines as a teenager I think this book is better for a younger demographicand his simplistic writing definitely comes across like that’s what he’s aiming for

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He Comes Next ß Transform Yourself from Passion Victim to PassionistaIn the smash hit She Comes First Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual ill cliteracy and women everywhere benefited from his viva la vulva philosophy of female pleasure Now in Passionista it's time to learn all about what turns men on and mak. This book is really for the we've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas folks or people who are unfamiliar with either sex or penises A 192 page book and you only get tips about how to touch a penis over 80% of the way through the book Ladies here is what you need to know Figure out what you personally like about what YOU do to yourself then COMMUNICATE that to your partner It really is that easy Take time and explore his body then COMMUNICATE with your partner about likes and dislikes The book is insulting Why as a female reader I need to get some cutesy She Ra like nickname such as passionista; can't I just learn about pleasuring a penis without some trite empowering moniker I'm really not here to be all cheerleader rah rah and make sure that my man takes his vitamins and exercises Seriously that advice is in there like my man is some kind of incompetent pet that reuires me to help him adultThe book is written in an informational manner with a A sprinkled throughout All the uestions and many uotes have a name attached to it I guess because it seems personable Maybe the reader will be less likely to uestion if the uestions or uotes are made up Some uestions didn't even appear to have a direct answer it was just a way to fill some tangent or agenda The book is full of contradictions as well There’s a chapter about exploring fantasies that includes role playing then later poor Wanda and the reader is insulted at attempts to dress up and role play as sexual flash and noveltyThere's tons of instances where over generalizations paraded as facts are completely the opposite truths for myself as a woman and any man I’ve been with and I highly doubt I or any of my former partners are a uniue flavor of humanity This absurdity throughout the book made it lose credibility in my mind A lot of the survey pieces or generalized comments were naive and offensive to both men and women Here are just a few that come to mind A survey about how women don't like or watch porn is incredibly ignorant then to pile on that women don't order pornographic movies when traveling hotels is just fraught with incorrect assumptions Women very much like porn there's a whole industry related to female friendly viewership and with the ubiuity of mobile devices there's no need to pay however much for a hotel movie when mobile devices hold the key to free porn I had to look up when this book was written which was 2008 and not some uaint throwback era where women might get the vapors hearing the word 'penis' Snuggling after sex As a female I hate it yet my husband loves it though according to this book it's supposed to be the other way around A general comment about how men don't like to take their socks off has never been something that's happened with any of the men I've been with or spoken to because seriously I was on a mission to figure out the truth to these facts READ Ð REFLECTIONSLISBURNLTD.CO.UK Í Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner Í 1 SUMMARY

Ian Kerner Í 1 SUMMARY A guy's skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tickWritten in the same witty insightful and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest You're Not That Into Him Either so popular Passionista is the empowered woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest and ensuring that he does the sa. Did a man come or come really hard Kerner delves into male anatomy arousal and orgasm to explain the difference Male sexuality is often centralized into the penis and its hardness when in fact relying on erection to indicate arousal is as naïve as taking female lubrication as guaranteed sexual arousal A global route to male pleasure lies in initially avoiding the penis and facilitating relaxation and arousal all over the male body Kerner first discusses the body and how men learn from a young age to be constantly protective of their genitals This literally closes the pelvis into itself and locks out intensity of sexual pleasure Kerner also discusses how hormones long term relationships and fantasy can affect male sexuality Because the pelvis is protective of itself men need to focus on the entire body to have “out of body” climaxes and that’s where Kerner spends the rest of his time While some of the early chapters in this section like Sexual Health seem to be better focused in Part 1 The Male Body or unnecessary for the purpose of the book Kerner judges real fantasies readers can still get mostly techniues from Part II Passionistas are ladies who take concern for their and their male sexual partner’s pleasure and don’t just give orgasm away easily Many men masturbate uickly with a routine often involving rhythmic stokes but passionistas take time to arouse all over the body and avoid focused penile attention early on Specific techniues massaging kissing oral or manual stimulation and orders of techniues are provided to provide maximum arousal and avoid the point of ejaculatory inevitability to heighten the intensity of eventual release These techniues can be a great place to start and it’s also important to discuss together what individually feels the best for the couple Readers also need to keep in mind that this is written from a heteronormative perspective Overall this is an engaging read able to intensify a man’s sexual pleasure if the emotional climate of the relationship is secure enough for sexual play An additional bibliography for further reading is provided For other reviews of relationship resources please visit my website wwwthecouplessyllabuscom